Premarital Therapy

It’s one of the most significant steps of your life.

Whether this is your first time getting married or your third, it is always better to have a plan and be intentional about your relationship and future. Therefore, it is better to consider a host of questions before the wedding bells chime.

How well do you know this person? Do you or your partner have children from a previous relationship? How are you going to be a co-parent in a blended family? Are you and your partner on the same page regarding finances? When you have children, how do the two of you want to raise them? Who is going to do the cooking?

You may think that some of these questions are silly and that you’ll figure it out once you get married, but these are the very things married couples come to me every day arguing about.

It’s essential to have clear expectations and ensure that you and your partner are on the same page about them. Therapy can help you develop a premarital plan.

How do you develop a premarital plan?

In premarital therapy, we will celebrate your love and your accomplishments together.

We will also prepare you for life as a married couple and help you develop sound skills to help you learn how to navigate disagreements and arguments, parenting and finances, friends, family and in-laws, and many other things that married couples struggle with occasionally.

I’ll help you transition from thinking only about you as an individual to thinking about you and your partner as a team.

Therapy can give you the best chance to succeed!

Consider these questions. What’s it like to take a test without studying? Do you feel you did as well as someone else could on the test without studying?

When we take a test without preparing for it, sometimes it works out, and we get a decent grade. But most of the time, the grade is below average, or we fail the test. Do you want to treat your marriage like a test you were too lazy to study for?

Premarital therapy will give you the solid foundation needed to build your life together. Learning how to communicate appropriately will help you avoid significant fights. Learning how to work together with your finances will help you reach the goals you set together. If you know the type of parents you want to be, you can help your children become more successful.

Premarital therapy won’t prevent disagreements, but it will teach you how to deal with disagreements and hard times more effectively with love and respect for one another.

Don’t fail the biggest test of your life.

As you take this step, premarital therapy can help you identify differences and compatibilities and learn how to approach challenges as a team.

My goal is to help you succeed in your relationship and life together.

Call me to schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation and get the tutor you need to ace this test!